Oct 3, 2008

It's a new phase here..........i have learnt a lot from friends and situations around me;they have reinstilled in me my age long belief in optimism and positivity.........well , these are going to be the buzz words for this post;


OPTIMISM --- to what extent can one bank upon this? Many consider optimism as a false armour against the pitfalls that confront us in this beautiful journey called life --- some feel it's merely an object of lexical aesthete not supposed to be applicable in practical situations and there may be a myriad other groups of people with still different views about optimism.........agreed, but there is also a better side to it............it will show itself before you when you earnestly begin believing in the immense power that it posseses ;someone has well said --- "sometimes life's gonna hitch u on your head with a brick, don't loose faith " ---- and believe me ,if you don't lose that small hope,that faith within you, if you can cling on ,facing that adversity with utmost optimism,it is definitely going to make a huge difference............and ............POSITIVITY itself is not much detached from optimism...........they are like the two parallel banks of a river,each is essential for the existance of the other, it's impossible for any one of the two to exist in isolation.

Well , optimism may be the crux of it all, but it is a deep belief in positivity and a positive attitude that paves the way for optimism to even show itself in an individual. and one may want to ask --- how far these acoustically pleasant terms can help us ?............an' some may opine that why in the first place have i chosen to call life as 'beautiful' , because ,perhaps most of us having experienced the unfriendliness and the unpleasantries of our daily chores have , perhaps mistakenly, chanced upon the conclusion of life not being so plain and simple , and hence not in the least beautiful after all..........you may agree with this, or you may not..................and if u don't agree on this view point then my dear friends thank your stars ,and more importantly thank your spirits for being sporting enough,that inspite of its pitfalls you have been able to recognize life and acknowledge it with its celebrations ,for - "life may not be the party we expected ,but while we are here ,we must dance ! " ;because by treating life as a celebration we confirm our respect for and faith in a higher force,a higher power that we address as God, and thus we start believing in goodness.....

And for those of my frtends who DO agree upon the viewpoint (of life giving us a li'l stepmotherly treatment) i have just one thing to say........... " dont lose faith " . i realise that it's a bit difficult task to change your viewpoint, and yes i have no right to do so , but i do have a request for you : you alone can improve your life ; the best part is the POWER lies in our own hands, and we must use that power;and life will certainly change for the good, for one thing is certain -- the life that we have been granted is ours and ought to be lived till its full course; so where's the harm in making it better for ourselves and thus so (i.e good) for people around us as well ?? And if we have finally decided to show up improvements then i suppose that optimism and positivity will certainly come a long way to help us do that ; you bet!!!

..................wish u all health ,happiness and success for life.
Thanks! for your patient reading.

9 comments:

codjil said...

by going through ur this blog i reminded a dialogue of KIDNAP. accrdng to it Imran says we have only thing which is free that is mind,& i ve utilised this very much...


ya its good,motivating..
keep it up..
actually most of the people now these things but to implement all these things is very tough..
if u ve any practical idea to implemnt these things,u convey....

Sweta Jamini said...

OPTIMISM...positivity....
well...i knew u cudnt hav started a blog wid ne odr topic btr dan dis...coz u r @ ur best when dealing wid such stuff..
hope i 2 ll b able to @least understand such things...if u keep on writing i surely will b able 2 sumday.
Good job...keep rolling!!

Unknown said...

optimism...positivity...good start...first blog is great...good views n high approach...keep writing such blogs...

actually its good if one spreads these sort of "know knowledges"...i mean everybody has knowledge about this but it sometimes becomes tuffer to actually bring it into realty.

so good deed...!!! keep it up!!!

Unknown said...

I’m impressed with the true philosophical vision of the author towards life (and action). Winners strive hard and leave no stone unturned. They are real “Karmveera”.
Very true!! Life may not be the party we expected. And rightly said, “the POWER lies in our own hands….” Positive perspective.
Everybody expects better life but few endeavor hard for the same. None will come to unfold ‘bed of roses’ for you unless you exert for making the life better. There is no substitute of perseverance.
Optimism and positivity coupled with fighting spirit win the race. Have faith in yourself and in God. All the odds will disperse. The almighty supreme power is there to help.
Thank you my child for giving wonderful message.

ELEVEN said...

A nice post..........no offence, but felt;for the major part;the post was actually heading nowhere........overall a thumbs-up.
Happy blogging!

Kunal Changia said...

hey neha!!!! really good work yaar...awesome essense of literature...but plz try working on the conclusive part a bit..n ya i think with these kind of topics u can include some practical life stories for supporting ur text in b/w...makes it a bit more intresting....

waiting 2 read more...

Unknown said...

k......... long philosophical note but yes inspiring and motivating.gud job dear!!!!!!!waiting for more pieces of writing 4m yr part.

k'sonal_theknowlegend said...

i do agree with the very OPTIMISM n the very +VITY shown by you...

m myself an optimist..bt one thing i wud like to commnt u referrin to the thing u called "step-motherly treatmnt" by life..here i wud like to say wid optimism one most imp thing u need to noe n behave accordingly is "rational"

wen u noe u havn't done the optima ,how can u expect ne congeniality.somtyms it hurts becoz u tak for granted the thing called LUCk ..n wen it doesn't favour u, u start blaming life's roughness....

neways u wrote really well,though i was a bit confused midway bt u ended really well n on a very positive note.
n m "optimistic" abt frthr jots frm u...

Anonymous said...

Well neha ..

nice blog ,
please tora simple likho .Kaphi kuch samajh me nahi aaya [:)][:)] .

but keep writing !!!!!!!!!